Find kinky women in Vancouver

Hi hi! I have no experience in this lifestyle whatsoever but it’s definitely something I’m interested in. Let me know if you think you could teach me a little about the dom/sub lifestyle!
Female (18) Vancouver, Washington
CIS WOMEN ONLY👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩 I’m ENM (solo) looking to explore the other side of my sexuality with a cis woman. I love anything nature related. Hiking, pottery (it’s clay after all), or even just going to the farmers market and having a picnic. 🌳🏕️ I tend to overshare, so shut me up with a kiss 😉 Bratty and goofy all in one 🙈
Female (30) Vancouver, Washington
I'm naturally attracted to men who allow me to explore my submissive side, preferably with someone comfortable or familiar with the D/s dynamic , and wanting a committed monogamous relationship. I am open to relocating for the right person, but I need to know I feel a certain way in your presence before I would agree to any official vetting process. I like girls too but more along the lines of friends having fun girly flirty nights with maybe some kissing or possibly more.
Female (50) Vancouver, Washington
looking for daddy 😘 I love lots of attention, cute dates, sexting, exploring kinks. words of affirmation. I enjoy being submissive and want a man who takes the steps to earn that trust. I appreciate kind, generous, intelligent people. Prefer long term deeper connections. I like women but in a more casual way and am a switch with women. I only like tall, masculine men and feminine, curvy women. I am in my 40s and don’t want big age gaps. busy life but can travel and make time if it’s worth it!
Female (41) Vancouver, Washington
demisexual, but i can feel things out quickly if you spark my interest. super shy. patience, compassion, and a charitable character is my biggest turn on c: i prefer doms who are older and are more of a Daddy/Mommy type. i secretly have a curiosity for abdl dynamics as well that i would like to explore.
Female (19) Vancouver, Washington
I'm submissive with a touch of bratty, just looking for some fun/relationship at the moment. I'm looking for a Daddy Dom/Soft Dom to guide me. I'm open to long distance or across the street. I have a voice kink, so I love talking on the phone and really getting to know someone. My kinks are spanking, light choking, Daddy Doms praising me, deep voice kinks.
Female (30) Vancouver, Washington
Single, looking for a longterm monogamous relationship with a kinky, fun, D/s aspect. I’ve been active in the local kink community for over 20 years. I enjoy going to munches and clubs with other kinky people. I’m seriously just looking for a D/s romantic forever relationship. I want to find someone who fully embraces the idea of a traditional relationship where you’re in charge but not in a micromanaging way. Overly educated empty nester with a full and happy life and a successful career. I have a bunch of diy projects and hobbies going all the time. I like thrift shopping, gardening, cooking, all kinds of girly things. I’m NOT looking for someone to support me and I won’t quit my job. I love what I do and it makes a real difference in the world. Very much NOT interested in poly, ENM, or anything other than LTR. You can find me on Fetlife under the same user name.
Female (52) Vancouver, Washington
i tease Becsusr I want to be commanded resist because I want to be broke open I hesitate nexus I'm learning but I'll lean in because I want to follow. I want things most wouldn't and crave things I shouldn't... i sweet with sassy attitude and like to challenge s good girl with a smart ass think you can handle??
Female (48) Vancouver, Washington
hi! southern girl here, home alone. I want to enjoy Christmas with a little TLC this year. Anyone out there feel like joining me in a day of irreverent self pleasing activities? I would love to spend Christmas snuggled in bed with daddy...😊
Female (56) Vancouver, Washington
Female half of extremely sexual couple. we love to play together or separate. we like playing with singles or couples. interested in threesomes, group sex, or one on one fun. Very interested in exploring more one on one with women. I am open to almost anything, come teach me something 😉 Bonus points if you like to camp, planning out a sexy camping weekend.
Female (43) Vancouver, Washington
I’ve self funded so far, gotten filler, Botox, lashes, bbl, BA, lipo and rib remolding. Well ideally I’d like an intense tpe relationship where my partner is privately my owner and supports me while telling me how to look, dress, what surgeries to get etc. I’m in school atm so I don’t want to sit around and do nothing but I help with the bills and they cover what it takes to be molded into their dream. I’m open to eventual relocation but for the next couple of years school comes first and is nonnegotiable atm. Like I think it’s really hot for my owner to come up to me be like “ok so you’re getting your hair done at 9:40, then you’ll go the salon, the usual, afterwards you have a laser appointment, make sure you wear the red dress I like and we’re going out for dinner, hope you like the house salad”. Please don’t message me if you wanna give only advice, RP or not take it seriously. Also, I’m looking for someone that we can both fuel our passion, and we can support each other. Not someone to just tell me what to do while I do all the work, pay for everything etc. I want to respect both our times so please don’t play any games. If you’re interested DM me and I hope we can make something work.
Female (28) Vancouver, Washington
I’m looking for a kinky boyfriend! Interested in the position? Feel free to enquire about seasonal work as a FWB. Sorry for the novel. To save us all time, I’ve had to keep adding things as I meet people here to be clear on what I’m seeking. I’m looking for someone who’s located within a 25ish mile radius of Vancouver WA. I can’t really host except a couple hours a week. I have my kid full time. She attends online school and aside from school holidays or when she’s at a couple of *** nights on Tuesday and Wednesday evenings, she’s home with me. That said, if you’re good I’ll eventually let you come over😉. My life is pretty busy but my feral 40s have kicked in and my needs often sneak up on me and demand to be met so accessibility is a huge priority. If I have to go to you (because my kid is underfoot) I can’t be driving for ages. I appreciate offers to travel to me but if I’m going to entertain that, know that you’re paying for the hotel room and you have to video chat with me at least a couple times first. I’m looking for in person fun only. I’m not interested in the virtual kinky conversations with anyone who’s not local. Please note I am a sapiosexual. If you want to get in my pants you’re gonna have to actually hold a conversation with me. I’m a curvy girl whose primary love language is physical touch and acts of service (ie I’m looking for someone nurturing). If you’re not very affectionate or snuggly do us both a favor and hit up someone else because neither of us would be happy together. I’m empathetic, intelligent, ambiverted & creative. I am currently obsessed with making pottery, and I enjoy reading smutty Romantacy. Im AuDHD, a homebody who wants snuggles in bed, and Saturday trips to farmers markets with a coffee in one hand and you in the other. Let’s go find food 🍱 🥩, get a ☕️ 🍸🥃, walk by/play in water🌊, enjoy music 🎼 , 💃 dancing, comedy 🎭 , a museum 🖼️, or the ballet 🩰 . —- Things that could be DEALBREAKERS for YOU: I’m a single mom with full time custody of a 14yr old who is 🏳️‍⚧️ 🏳️‍⚧️ 🏳️‍⚧️. I’m almost 5’ 9” and prefer you’re my height or taller. For those of you with bad allergies, I have 2 🐈‍ cats. Not open to cyber sex, *** 3 ways, or group activities of any kind.
Female (41) Vancouver, Washington
I’ve always been kinky, and submissive. I love sex, and being used for pleasure. Currently looking for community and someone to explore kink with. I also recognize it’s a process to get there and I need to know I’m respected and can trust the person. Outside of this, I have an active life that lets me get outside, with a regular swim and bike routine. Connecting with nature and finding moments to slow down like watching the leaves blow in the wind is my spiritual practice. Hobbies that bring me joy, home brewed kombucha, gardening and foraging. I have so many other things that pull my attention into learning, growth and curiosity but I will leave it at this for now :)
Female (32) Vancouver, Washington
looking to learn and experience more…I’m a caregiver to the core but I really want to be taken care of, pampered, spoiled, dom/sub dynamic… teach me, I’m fairly new to this!
Female (41) Vancouver, Washington
100% Brat. Generally very shy by nature & also bit overwhelmed with all the attention on here 😅 Looking for an experienced & caring dom who may also be interested in pursuing a relationship if the vibes are right. Open to being strictly playmates as well but preference is to build a form a relationship if possible. I can be a challenging brat at times, but I’m definitely not a switch! Not looking to be anyone’s mommy, but maybe I can call you Daddy?
Female (27) Vancouver, Washington
Hi there!! I am looking for a man to top me. I'm not looking for a vanilla partner. I need someone caring but dominant. I want to be taken away from my reality and put in my subbie place. A play partner. I want a man's hands all over me... and in me! I was in a Master/slave relationship for 10 years and we broke up quite a while ago. I'm ready to have fun again. I'm not interested in 24/7. I don't "top from the bottom", or play games with people's hearts. I am honest to a fault and that honesty sometimes hurts, but I will be the first to tell you when I messed up. I have my own issues and I am working on them, I am not perfect, but I am NOT looking for someone to help fix me. Two notes: I'm sorry, but I'm only interested in men BWC who live in Vancouver Washington. And... I'm disabled. So physically I am unable to do certain things anymore.
Female (52) Vancouver, Washington
If you want to know what more I have to offer? ask for my sn ap **Desires and Fantasies** being caught in the act of playing with myself, being punished and used for your pleasure and left shaking from my own pleasure. being in a cnc situation where I am sleeping, get tied up and blindfolded, used, and not knowing who or how many people are in the room touching and using me. find me on Reddit for more of my fantasies: https://www.reddit.com/u/kiramosa/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
Female (33) Vancouver, Washington
friends first let's see if we get along first. . in the mean time hi message let's chat. . . Ask about today's music 🎶🎶🎶 of choice .. . . due to recent issues with men being a bit too aggressive. if you come at me side ways ....I will block you. if you block me I will return the favor... I do not playing games... FAFO! . . lmao if I answer your question and you don't like my response. I am not going to reword it just to please you. IF you choose to call me a bitch, cunt, whore, slut, or what ever else and threatening my life or what ever I will just laugh at you. and if you ask for my address I will give you the local police department. just understand respect is earned not given in ***. . . if you get my # or get on a chatting app with me.. and you start to harass me. there will be repercussions to your actions. I am not your parent or your Dom. but if I have to put those hats on and put you in time out, this lil old sub will. . . look if you are going to talk to me... then block me. just don't talk to me my god ... smh . . I will protect my peace... let's have a decent time and get to know one another. with out the damn drama . .
Female (47) Vancouver, Washington
I’m newly separating from my only relationship in my adult life of 10 years and intentionally stepping into the next version of my life. I’m a devoted mom, a natural caretaker, and also a certified baddie. I do home renovations, own a little business, and hold my own very well. I’m sweet and capable. I love thrifting, frugal living, cooking, baking, and my daily coffee ritual. I create comfort wherever I go, and when I choose someone, I spoil them through care, warmth, and consistency. I’m neurodivergent (OCD/ADHD), financially responsible, and deeply intentional with my energy. Did I mention I’m energetic asf? Sexually, I crave aggressive, affectionate, emotionally present energy , the kind of dominance that feels passionate, grounding, and deeply connected. I want intensity in bed- assertive, consuming, and sweet all at once. I love being led, reassured, and desired. I’m shy sexually and definitely need the leader part to shine through in my sexual partners. I’m not looking for a full-time or traditional committed relationship. I am looking for a meaningful, respectful, chemistry heavy connection with someone who understands dominance doesn’t require coldness and softness doesn’t mean weakness. I won’t have an exclusive relationship at this time as it’s my first time as an adult being single. I want to learn my way around life. If you want a woman who can bake you bread, run a household, melt into you when she trusts you, and meet your energy with loyalty and heat while calling her the sweetest babygirl around, we’ll probably get along just fine.
Female (26) Vancouver, Washington
Eat my ass like a cupcake! I’m a pretty, plus size , thick goddess who needs her ass worshipped. big beautiful woman lovers only… must be local for a reply.
Female (46) Vancouver, Washington
I'm just jumping back into life.... 10 years needed to heal, and I did. shy until you get to know me. if I want your attention... you will know it, ì can be a little brattylol. I am very playful when I trust you. I am very honest and loyal.
Female (63) Vancouver, Washington
How do I describe lil ol me? hmmm.... An infinite omega and yet not... something soft and gentle. I love to be caressed but also love a firm bass hand slap on the ass. I'm a 50/50 girl. Love love yet also love it rough. Love the feeling of the rope being united and you get a slow hot burn. Yet a hand that knows how to be gentle and teeth that can bite with just the right pressure. Open to most things and get excited to try new things. Romance is beautiful but being a vixen can be damn sexy. I'm usually pretty dominant and just go after what I want. Unless you make me shy. Then it takes some work. Love to be dominant with my ladies, especially those that enjoy it. Tendency to be submissive with men at least that's what I enjoy to be but some bring out the lioness. Write me. See where it leads....
Female (43) Vancouver, Washington
39 years ago a baby girl was born… Here I am… I have lived in the NWP all my life. But really enjoy TRAVELING… nature, history, music, dancing, Astronomy, SEX, driving, watersports And of course Disney… should I go on?
Female (40) Vancouver, Washington
I like straight men bi women no trans stuff toys lingerie being spoiled spoiling certain *** photography and shopping lol I'm a antiques appraiser and horse trader gypsy and a hippie a hustler and crypto saver a wanna be private pornstar a lady and a slut but only for a very small group and only for a couple months.
Female (49) Vancouver, Washington

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Hi hi! I have no experience in this lifestyle whatsoever but it’s definitely something I’m interested in. Let me know if you think you could teach me a little about the dom/sub lifestyle!
Female (18) Vancouver, Washington
CIS WOMEN ONLY👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩 I’m ENM (solo) looking to explore the other side of my sexuality with a cis woman. I love anything nature related. Hiking, pottery (it’s clay after all), or even just going to the farmers market and having a picnic. 🌳🏕️ I tend to overshare, so shut me up with a kiss 😉 Bratty and goofy all in one 🙈
Female (30) Vancouver, Washington
looking for daddy 😘 I love lots of attention, cute dates, sexting, exploring kinks. words of affirmation. I enjoy being submissive and want a man who takes the steps to earn that trust. I appreciate kind, generous, intelligent people. Prefer long term deeper connections. I like women but in a more casual way and am a switch with women. I only like tall, masculine men and feminine, curvy women. I am in my 40s and don’t want big age gaps. busy life but can travel and make time if it’s worth it!
Female (41) Vancouver, Washington
Single, looking for a longterm monogamous relationship with a kinky, fun, D/s aspect. I’ve been active in the local kink community for over 20 years. I enjoy going to munches and clubs with other kinky people. I’m seriously just looking for a D/s romantic forever relationship. I want to find someone who fully embraces the idea of a traditional relationship where you’re in charge but not in a micromanaging way. Overly educated empty nester with a full and happy life and a successful career. I have a bunch of diy projects and hobbies going all the time. I like thrift shopping, gardening, cooking, all kinds of girly things. I’m NOT looking for someone to support me and I won’t quit my job. I love what I do and it makes a real difference in the world. Very much NOT interested in poly, ENM, or anything other than LTR. You can find me on Fetlife under the same user name.
Female (52) Vancouver, Washington
I am poly with a partner (we date separately). I am looking for another partner where I can have a deep connected relationship that does not just focus on sex but what makes a relationship work. I have 4 kids, and the last was an urgent c-section about 5 months ago and am dealing with complications after it. I am not looking for a hook up or friends with benefits.
Female (35) Vancouver, Washington
demisexual, but i can feel things out quickly if you spark my interest. super shy. patience, compassion, and a charitable character is my biggest turn on c: i prefer doms who are older and are more of a Daddy/Mommy type. i secretly have a curiosity for abdl dynamics as well that i would like to explore.
Female (19) Vancouver, Washington
Female half of extremely sexual couple. we love to play together or separate. we like playing with singles or couples. interested in threesomes, group sex, or one on one fun. Very interested in exploring more one on one with women. I am open to almost anything, come teach me something 😉 Bonus points if you like to camp, planning out a sexy camping weekend.
Female (43) Vancouver, Washington
Hi there.. Curious, sensual and sarcastic here
Female (54) Vancouver, Washington
I’ve self funded so far, gotten filler, Botox, lashes, bbl, BA, lipo and rib remolding. Well ideally I’d like an intense tpe relationship where my partner is privately my owner and supports me while telling me how to look, dress, what surgeries to get etc. I’m in school atm so I don’t want to sit around and do nothing but I help with the bills and they cover what it takes to be molded into their dream. I’m open to eventual relocation but for the next couple of years school comes first and is nonnegotiable atm. Like I think it’s really hot for my owner to come up to me be like “ok so you’re getting your hair done at 9:40, then you’ll go the salon, the usual, afterwards you have a laser appointment, make sure you wear the red dress I like and we’re going out for dinner, hope you like the house salad”. Please don’t message me if you wanna give only advice, RP or not take it seriously. Also, I’m looking for someone that we can both fuel our passion, and we can support each other. Not someone to just tell me what to do while I do all the work, pay for everything etc. I want to respect both our times so please don’t play any games. If you’re interested DM me and I hope we can make something work.
Female (28) Vancouver, Washington
hi! southern girl here, home alone. I want to enjoy Christmas with a little TLC this year. Anyone out there feel like joining me in a day of irreverent self pleasing activities? I would love to spend Christmas snuggled in bed with daddy...😊
Female (56) Vancouver, Washington
Hi there!! I am looking for a man to top me. I'm not looking for a vanilla partner. I need someone caring but dominant. I want to be taken away from my reality and put in my subbie place. A play partner. I want a man's hands all over me... and in me! I was in a Master/slave relationship for 10 years and we broke up quite a while ago. I'm ready to have fun again. I'm not interested in 24/7. I don't "top from the bottom", or play games with people's hearts. I am honest to a fault and that honesty sometimes hurts, but I will be the first to tell you when I messed up. I have my own issues and I am working on them, I am not perfect, but I am NOT looking for someone to help fix me. Two notes: I'm sorry, but I'm only interested in men BWC who live in Vancouver Washington. And... I'm disabled. So physically I am unable to do certain things anymore.
Female (52) Vancouver, Washington
I'm naturally attracted to men who allow me to explore my submissive side, preferably with someone comfortable or familiar with the D/s dynamic , and wanting a committed monogamous relationship. I am open to relocating for the right person, but I need to know I feel a certain way in your presence before I would agree to any official vetting process. I like girls too but more along the lines of friends having fun girly flirty nights with maybe some kissing or possibly more.
Female (50) Vancouver, Washington
I’m newly separating from my only relationship in my adult life of 10 years and intentionally stepping into the next version of my life. I’m a devoted mom, a natural caretaker, and also a certified baddie. I do home renovations, own a little business, and hold my own very well. I’m sweet and capable. I love thrifting, frugal living, cooking, baking, and my daily coffee ritual. I create comfort wherever I go, and when I choose someone, I spoil them through care, warmth, and consistency. I’m neurodivergent (OCD/ADHD), financially responsible, and deeply intentional with my energy. Did I mention I’m energetic asf? Sexually, I crave aggressive, affectionate, emotionally present energy , the kind of dominance that feels passionate, grounding, and deeply connected. I want intensity in bed- assertive, consuming, and sweet all at once. I love being led, reassured, and desired. I’m shy sexually and definitely need the leader part to shine through in my sexual partners. I’m not looking for a full-time or traditional committed relationship. I am looking for a meaningful, respectful, chemistry heavy connection with someone who understands dominance doesn’t require coldness and softness doesn’t mean weakness. I won’t have an exclusive relationship at this time as it’s my first time as an adult being single. I want to learn my way around life. If you want a woman who can bake you bread, run a household, melt into you when she trusts you, and meet your energy with loyalty and heat while calling her the sweetest babygirl around, we’ll probably get along just fine.
Female (26) Vancouver, Washington
im looking for a monogamous relationship im sweet shy and loyal I like roses and im a lesbian and i like to sing dance and cook sometimes and Im sweet
Female (28) Vancouver, Washington
Warning: sassy chef alert. When not cooking up a storm, i'm probably plotting my next adventure. Casually looking. honestly just trying to find that spark or just making more friends to go out with
Female (25) Vancouver, Washington
friends first let's see if we get along first. . in the mean time hi message let's chat. . . Ask about today's music 🎶🎶🎶 of choice .. . . due to recent issues with men being a bit too aggressive. if you come at me side ways ....I will block you. if you block me I will return the favor... I do not playing games... FAFO! . . lmao if I answer your question and you don't like my response. I am not going to reword it just to please you. IF you choose to call me a bitch, cunt, whore, slut, or what ever else and threatening my life or what ever I will just laugh at you. and if you ask for my address I will give you the local police department. just understand respect is earned not given in ***. . . if you get my # or get on a chatting app with me.. and you start to harass me. there will be repercussions to your actions. I am not your parent or your Dom. but if I have to put those hats on and put you in time out, this lil old sub will. . . look if you are going to talk to me... then block me. just don't talk to me my god ... smh . . I will protect my peace... let's have a decent time and get to know one another. with out the damn drama . .
Female (47) Vancouver, Washington
How do I describe lil ol me? hmmm.... An infinite omega and yet not... something soft and gentle. I love to be caressed but also love a firm bass hand slap on the ass. I'm a 50/50 girl. Love love yet also love it rough. Love the feeling of the rope being united and you get a slow hot burn. Yet a hand that knows how to be gentle and teeth that can bite with just the right pressure. Open to most things and get excited to try new things. Romance is beautiful but being a vixen can be damn sexy. I'm usually pretty dominant and just go after what I want. Unless you make me shy. Then it takes some work. Love to be dominant with my ladies, especially those that enjoy it. Tendency to be submissive with men at least that's what I enjoy to be but some bring out the lioness. Write me. See where it leads....
Female (43) Vancouver, Washington
I'm just jumping back into life.... 10 years needed to heal, and I did. shy until you get to know me. if I want your attention... you will know it, ì can be a little brattylol. I am very playful when I trust you. I am very honest and loyal.
Female (63) Vancouver, Washington
100% Brat. Generally very shy by nature & also bit overwhelmed with all the attention on here 😅 Looking for an experienced & caring dom who may also be interested in pursuing a relationship if the vibes are right. Open to being strictly playmates as well but preference is to build a form a relationship if possible. I can be a challenging brat at times, but I’m definitely not a switch! Not looking to be anyone’s mommy, but maybe I can call you Daddy?
Female (27) Vancouver, Washington
I am 25, single, open to polyamory but tend to prefer monogamy. I am both a pillow and a passenger princess looking to serve and do it well. I do want to get to know you better as I can a bit shy at 1st but a good game of 20 questions tends to get me chattering away.
Female (25) Vancouver, Washington
I like straight men bi women no trans stuff toys lingerie being spoiled spoiling certain *** photography and shopping lol I'm a antiques appraiser and horse trader gypsy and a hippie a hustler and crypto saver a wanna be private pornstar a lady and a slut but only for a very small group and only for a couple months.
Female (49) Vancouver, Washington
the unicorn you both have been looking for. I'm not here to come between yall I'm here to come with yall. I love love... as long as its someone else's. I want to be the bridge inbetween your desire and reality. you take care of me and ill make sure to take care of you both. to be very clear- I'm not trying to join your relationship I'm trying to help you enhance it. think of me as the toy you brought home to spice things up a bit, and babes I promise you ill do just that
Female (34) Vancouver, Washington
looking to learn and experience more…I’m a caregiver to the core but I really want to be taken care of, pampered, spoiled, dom/sub dynamic… teach me, I’m fairly new to this!
Female (41) Vancouver, Washington
i tease Becsusr I want to be commanded resist because I want to be broke open I hesitate nexus I'm learning but I'll lean in because I want to follow. I want things most wouldn't and crave things I shouldn't... i sweet with sassy attitude and like to challenge s good girl with a smart ass think you can handle??
Female (48) Vancouver, Washington

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